Yeah. I mean, I actually have an extensive list of behaviors that will guarantee that someone is never welcome in my home or at a gathering I'm hosting. Rape, assault, other violent actions, if I know about them are absolutely included. Others that are actually in play more often are "being creepy" and making people uncomfortable -- and these are obviously more vague, but I don't feel the need to reach a legal standard of evidence to decide I don't want someone around me or in my space.
And that list is far from exhaustive! But I have absolutely ZERO interest in trying to take an inclusive or "fair and balanced" approach to this kind of thing. My friends (and a lot of my extended community!) are generally the cream of the crop, IMO, and I see no reason to dilute that with shit.
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Date: 2014-07-10 11:57 am (UTC)And that list is far from exhaustive! But I have absolutely ZERO interest in trying to take an inclusive or "fair and balanced" approach to this kind of thing. My friends (and a lot of my extended community!) are generally the cream of the crop, IMO, and I see no reason to dilute that with shit.