in motion

Feb. 26th, 2016 03:33 pm
aroraborealis: (flow)
Puerto Morelos continues to be delightful. I've fallen into a rhythm of chillaxing during the day and then venturing into town in the evening, for the most part, though the last couple of days, I've visited town (about a mile away) during the day AND the evening.

Today, I geared up and ventured in to catch a boat ride and snorkel tour of the nearby reef, which was just great. It was a totally lively and beautiful reef ecosystem, with (among others) multiple sightings of barracuda and trumpetfish and of course all the other little colorful tinies you see in a thriving reef setting.

I lucked into a small, inexpensive operation, where they also gave me the Mexican price for the tour, since I speak Spanish. I had my doubts about this (everyone always promises a good price, after all), but the other folks on the boat mentioned what they'd paid, and it was, in fact, a bit more than my price (but not so much that I felt incensed on their behalf). Then it turned out I was the only client who spoke Spanish, and the tour guides had pretty rudimentary English, so I got to play translator, which I always enjoy, so I think everyone won. I'm thinking about going out again tomorrow, because, well, it's not normally every day that you get to splash around a gorgeous reef, after all.

Now, I'm just waiting for the sun to get a little lower before I dive back into the water here at the B&B. MOAR splashing!

The vast majority of my time here is in motion in some way or another: hammock, bed suspended by ropes, swimming, boating, walking, biking, taxiing ... so I'm slightly discombobulated those rare times when I'm sitting in a chair that rests on the ground. I think that means everything is just the way it should be.

mentor

Jan. 25th, 2016 10:01 pm
aroraborealis: (blind dance 2)
I recently had someone at work ask me to mentor her, explicitly. I know that a lot of the people who work for me see me as a mentor (because they say so), but this was a first. It feels incredibly fucking awesome to be seen that way by smart, capable people who I respect and admire. Holy shit. It is a powerful force against the voices of insecurity and self-doubt when they drop by for tea.

Progress

Mar. 15th, 2014 11:58 pm
aroraborealis: (flow)
2.5 years ago:

Before I started at my current job, there was a minor ruckus about my position that I don't really know much about, but a result of it was that when I came on board, there was some ruckus about me in a small corner of the organization that didn't matter a whole lot to me. One woman in particular -- Cindy -- made it very clear right away that she didn't like me or the job I'd been hired to do, and she's the sort of person who takes a lot of pride in being harsh and "tell it like it is", so she was quite explicit in letting me know the ways that I was not up to snuff in her opinion, starting with my hair and continuing to my professional background as she knew it. Okay, fine, this is someone I have to deal with very infrequently (though not never), so, ok, I'll ignore all the bullshit and just do my job as professionally as possible around her. Which I do.

2 years ago:

Cindy had led an irrelevant campaign trying to prevent my promotion. I got promoted.

1 month ago:

Cindy said to Michele, who reports to me, that she'd like to move to supporting someone in our division. Michele says to Cindy, "Of course that would mean reporting to Rosa ..." and Cindy responds, "Well, that might not be so bad."

This week:

Someone I've never heard of emails me to ask if we can have lunch, saying Cindy suggested she contact me. Later that day, I run into Cindy and say, "Hey, your friend emailed me. We're gonna have lunch sometime!" Cindy says, "I've known her since she was born and she just started working here and she's having a real hard time finding people who are weird and interesting, and I told her she could reach out to you, that you know all the best weird people to know and that you could really help her. Thanks for taking her under your wing."
aroraborealis: (squee!)
Last night, I got a meeting invitation from an SVP who I have met once and almost never interact with, to meet with him, my boss, and a couple of other people about a complicated cascade of politically charged decisions on which I take point. Eek!

But I had a plan, and I sent it to my boss and explained it to him so he was on board, and in the meeting, I had all the necessary information to convince everyone else that it was the best route. "I think this is a compromise position that everyone can live with," said Mr. SVP at the end of the meeting. I didn't mention that I was more satisfied with the "compromise" than I had been with the plan that we would have proceeded with if we hadn't had that meeting.

AND everyone in the meeting came out feeling like I'd saved the day by coming up with this plan everyone could live with.

I FEEL TRIUMPHANT!
aroraborealis: (laughter)
The most absurd parts of my job are always when I'm doing something super fun but feeling stressed about it. Like, I'm running late for the boat party and have to stop to buy 30 pool noodles and I can't find the entrance to the Target parking lot. Or, I'm so hungover from the first night of parties at the retreat, but I have to restock for night 2, so I'm miserably buying two grocery carts of booze that I can't imagine ever wanting to drink ever again.
aroraborealis: (soft)
You know those days when you wake up with your heart busting wide open, aching with happiness and the bittersweetness of feeling whole and one with the world, connected to your fellow humans and this lonely hunk of rock we occupy, all in, in it together?

Happy Monday, my companions. May it be full of happy surprises and the bright spark of your own divinity.
aroraborealis: (bubbly)
Last night, my four (4) three-liter (3L) cocktail aging barrels arrived. Hooray!

Except, uhm, this means that I need 12L of spirits to start using them. If your typical bottle holds 750mL, this means I need 16 bottles, assuming I use the full contents of each. So, uh, I guess I'm investing in booze this weekend.

YESSSS

Jan. 7th, 2013 02:52 pm
aroraborealis: (happy petals)
I LOVE it that every time I have the conversation with my boss where I say, "Okay, this is great, but I want more," he has great ideas for what more I can be doing.
aroraborealis: (tequila!)
"Hello!

"You just received what I can only describe as a wine bouquet, it will be here at reception whenever you would like to pick it up, thanks!"

q&a

Sep. 21st, 2012 11:31 am
aroraborealis: (laughter)
Coworker: "Here's a question that most people don't know the answer to. You've historically shown yourself not to fall into that category..."
aroraborealis: (squee!)
People, how is this job even real?

I just organized a field day for the portion of my team participating in a pilot mentor/mentee program. We had tug o' war and egg relay and egg race and water balloon toss and hilarity and general awesomeness.

Seriously, I get paid for this?
aroraborealis: (dance)
I know I'm like the last person to get around to posting this, but I'm gonna do it anyway, because I adore it so much:



I already loved that Gotye song, and this queer ASL version is just fantastic. Also, could someone in SF please arrange for me and Azora to be at the same party the next time I'm out there? Thanks!
aroraborealis: (happy petals)
I got up this morning before the fingers of dawn had become rosy, and along with [livejournal.com profile] veek, [livejournal.com profile] eestiplika, [livejournal.com profile] moominmolly, [livejournal.com profile] dilletante, and little N, ventured to the banks of the Charles River with small boats made of folded paper and candles to set them afloat and afire and welcome the solstice sun.

We watched the sun peek over the horizon, a distant dim pink at first, slowly brightening as it rose above the haze of Boston. Welcome, summer, we're glad you're here!

Today's song is Hope on Fire by Vienna Teng:

aroraborealis: (happy side)
I adore fun umbrellas, because they're fun, and also because they brighten up the dreariness that is often implied by the need for an umbrella. I have a pink flower one, and an underwater one, and a sunflower one (which is missing but sure to turn up) ... and my newest addition is an LED umbrella. This one is different from the rest in that I can't really see the lights from the inside most of the time, but people's dramatic reactions make up for that: I invariably get at least one and usually several delighted comments from people when I'm carrying it.

Over the weekend, I was dressed up and walking to a birthday party around dusk, and obviously the LED umbrella was the right one to carry to a party. (Yes, I was also wearing glitter, because: birthday party!) On the bike path, there were a couple of little kids playing in a puddle, with their dad nearby.

As I neared them, one of the kids fell, and started crying and being very upset, until she caught sight of me, when she stopped dead and just stared with her jaw hanging open and a slightly awed expression on her face.

"Wow, look at HER," the dad said, and both kids emitted entranced sighs. "She's all sparkly!" continued the dad.

"Thanks, it was a gift!" I told them as I passed.

Both kids swiveled their heads as the dad said "That's amazing! She's so cool!" as I passed and waved.

I quite like the idea that I'm influencing impressionable young people into the cult of sparkle. Also, I think I saved their puddle jumping playtime for at least a little while longer!
aroraborealis: (squee!)
Hey, do you love crazy inspiration, creativity, and playfulness? Do you want there to be more of it in the world? Do you have a little money to contribute to the cause? If so, please consider pitching in for the Boston Circus Guild's current kickstarter, here.

This is going to be an awesome show, and not only do I want them to have the money to really run with it, but I also want to see what they come up with next!

Codeathon

May. 12th, 2012 07:48 pm
aroraborealis: (sleepy)

Have been at work 13 hours so far. Am VERY TIRED. Pls send booze and driver.

Posted via LiveJournal app for iPhone.

aroraborealis: (dance)
Last night, [livejournal.com profile] moominmolly, [livejournal.com profile] dilletante, N and I went to see Bobby McFerrin in Providence. Thanks to whoever it was who pointed out to me that show!

I've been having a super stressful week, and I actually got some extra-stressful news just before the concert, so there was a big part of me that was wishing it was happening any other week. Earlier in the day, I briefly considered skipping it.

But I didn't skip it! and I am so glad.

Bobby McFerrin's music is so wonderful and utterly playful, and hearing him live takes it to a whole new level, because it's not just the music he's playing with, but the people, too. His whole body is an instrument -- and an incredibly versatile one -- and also the auditorium and the people in it are instruments he plays with a grounded glee that is captivating.

And because each audience and venue is different, and he's always improvising, each time seeing him is completely different, so I really can't wait for the next time.
aroraborealis: (squee!)
This weekend, [livejournal.com profile] eestiplika and I are migrating south to New York City! Hooray! We're psyched.

We're staying at a place in Brooklyn we found through Air B&B that has a loft bed that, if we're understanding the photos correctly, we get into by climbing up on a stack of coffee tables and chairs. Slightly terrifying! But, also, as [livejournal.com profile] eestiplika says: Adventure! I'm considering bringing my pee funnel and a bottle so I don't have to navigate the stack in the middle of the night, since I invariably have to pee in the wee hours*.

So, on Friday, we get in midday, and we plan to hit an event for PM Press in the evening, and to visit Highline Park, and have mind-blowing sushi.

Then, on Saturday, she's going to a conference, so I'm on my own for most of the day. What should I do with a free day on my own in New York City? I have some ideas, but I want yours, too!

Among other ideas, I'm considering some shopping: I'm in need of a few new items of clothing, and I'd love to find some good second-hand stores. Any recommendations? Or some good quality clothing stores in general that you think I might like?

Finally, any favorite brunch places in either Brooklyn or Hell's Kitchen for Sunday before we head north again?

Woooooooooooooooo!

*Haha, get it? Wee hours?
aroraborealis: (happy)
On the bright side!

Things I love today, also an incomplete list:

1. beer fridge
2. dubstep
3. having my to-do list under control
4. clever and humorous responses to things I hate
5. writing my new job description!

What do you love today?
aroraborealis: (birch flirt)
What makes you feel awesome?
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